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Let anger dissolve-by-nature. |
To release anger is not
suppression, nor denial. It is allowing anger to dissolve naturally, without
grasping, without forcing resistance. Below are six steps to guide
this letting go:
1. See Anger as a Passing Visitor
Instead of thinking, “I am
angry”, try seeing it as “Anger is present”—a visitor, not a
permanent identity. When you detach from anger as “self,” it naturally loses
its grip and begins dissolving. 🪷 Reflection: Emotions come and go—you do not have to become them.
2. Understand What Anger Feeds On
Anger continues because it is
fed—by thoughts, reactions, and justification. If you stop feeding the
fire, it gradually fades into quiet embers. 🌱 Practice: Ask, “Does holding this anger truly
help?” The answer often leads to release.
3. Breathe Through the Emotion
Breath is a profound teacher—it moves
effortlessly through emotions, never bound by them. 🌬️ Technique: Inhale awareness; recognize anger
without judgment. Exhale release; let the tightness dissolve gently.
Each breath is a cycle of arising and ceasing—just like emotions.
4. Observe Before Reacting
Most regretful words come from speaking
before reflecting. Anger pushes action—but wisdom pauses. 🕊️ Practice: Before reacting, take three
conscious breaths. In that space, anger loses urgency—what once
seemed necessary fades.
5. Hold Compassion Over Emotion
Anger narrows the mind; compassion
opens it. Shifting from frustration to understanding softens reactive
energy, allowing clarity to guide response. 🌸 Reflection: Ask yourself, “What does this
person need—anger, or understanding?” Often, the answer dissolves
resentment.
6. Allow Time to Unfold the Process
Letting go is not instant—it is a
quiet, ongoing refinement. Holding presence, maintaining patience, trusting
that anger will dissolve without grasping at urgency—this is how clarity
replaces agitation. ⌛ Practice:
Instead of demanding immediate peace, allow emotions to fade at their own
pace.
Final Thought: Let It Come, Let It Go
Anger arises. Let it come.
Anger dissolves. Let it go.
No need to hold, no
need to push away. In this gentle release, the
mind remains free—unburdened, present, whole.
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